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The Journey Begins

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A friend of mine says we all have a Hollywood story. Something to share. Something that might just help a friend along on their journey. Something that will make someone laugh. Something that will make someone cry. It’s part of what we all call, “life” that strange space in time that may or may not hold a deeper meaning. I’d like to believe it holds leagues of meaning, layers of meaning; each filled with their own stories and textures and songs. And dreams.

I also dream. Lots. 

I didn’t always dream. There was a time I was scared all the time. There was a time when my journey wasn’t holding as much promise:

The day was May 16, 1992. The only reason that it is important is that it was the last time someone hit me in anger or violence. The events prior to that day however compelling, moving, or disturbing they may be are not the focus of my story. That was the past; a part of what helped me become who I am today, but not how I define myself in the present tense. That was the day I said, “No more. There are choices to be made, and the choice I am making now is to break the cycle.”

Over the course of time, I will share the journey from “College Drop-Out to Ph.D.” I’ll share the funny stories of trying to remember how to be my own person. I’ll share some of the obstacles and heartbreaks that comprise life. I’ll share the utter joy of finding personal freedom. It took time. Lots of time but my official transcript says: Degree conferred: September 30, 2010. I am a Ph.D. 

More than those letters, I am ME.

11 Replys to “The Journey Begins”

  1. Colette Jacquot says:
    November 25, 2019 at 4:14 pm

    Powerful!
    Colette Jacquot

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    1. tziporak55 says:
      November 26, 2019 at 11:02 am

      Thank you! It’s been a long haul but somehow there have been enough shoulders to stand on to keep my head above water.

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  2. Patricia says:
    May 24, 2019 at 1:32 pm

    We met the day you became a doctor. We only spent a very short time together but I knew then that I really wanted to know you. And your blog is going to provide me with that opportunity! Looking forward to learning about your journey.

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    1. tziporak55 says:
      May 24, 2019 at 1:45 pm

      I am so happy to reconnect! I thought you looked familiar on IG but couldn’t quite place you. Welcome to my insane world!

      Reply
  3. Chris Mellen says:
    April 4, 2019 at 4:25 pm

    Thank you for this …. so looking forward to hearing your wisdom

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  4. Sean says:
    March 13, 2019 at 9:54 pm

    An incredible journey by an incredible Lady, with an incredible warrior’s heart.

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  5. Susan says:
    January 1, 2019 at 8:33 am

    I am so proud to call you a friend. And will selfishly ‘use’ you for inspiration. Thank you in advance.

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  6. Taffy Dugan says:
    December 30, 2018 at 12:48 pm

    I’m so happy you’re doing this! You’re going to help many people, including yourself 💜

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  7. Cristy says:
    December 29, 2018 at 8:35 am

    I look forward to more!
    I love the non-chronological part. I completely relate.

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  8. Stephanie F says:
    December 27, 2018 at 10:38 pm

    So true. Every life lived has a Hollywood story that’s stranger than fiction. I know I do, as do you. Thanks for sharing your struggles and successes to help others on their journey. It’s good to know we’re not alone and that others are part of this tribe of weirdness and wonder.

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  9. Joe Cogan says:
    December 27, 2018 at 7:38 pm

    And you are AWESOME.

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